Today’s blog is all about whether it really is possible and whether you can tell what someone is really thinking. Many believe that there is a science behind ‘reading minds’. Read on to find out more about the secrets and the science.
I wish I were like one of those secret agents who can always tell what the bad guy is really thinking. We pick up the story in its closing chapters:
Our hero has finally caught the villain…
Salter slammed his fist on the table and stared at the man opposite him. Despite all his training, the special agent was starting to lose his nerve. The man he was interrogating stared blankly back at him, his eyes were dark and gave nothing away.
“Just admit you were there!” Salter shouted.
The lie detector results had been inconclusive, but Salter knew he was lying. He just had to work out how he could prove it…
Intuition – when things just don’t seem quite right.
There are times when you just know something isn’t right: You’re probably not able to put your finger on exactly how you can tell. Perhaps it’s a combination of the facial expression, the body language and the tone of voice? Your intuition may be pretty good and you may have worked out from the pictures above that the person on the right is acting and the person on the left is showing true emotion.
Intuition – how it can save lives
In the 1990/1 Gulf War a radar operator saved many lives through using his intuition. His job was to monitor the radar screens of bombers returning back to base. One night he saw on his screen what looked to everyone else exactly like an American jet returning to base: it was on the normal flight path and the right speed. But he sensed something was wrong and ordered it be shot down.
He shot down an iraqi long range missile – one that would have hit the military base, possibly at the cost of many lives. For months, no one could work out how he had managed to spot it. To everyone else it looked exactly the same as the friendly jets did. The soldier couldn’t explain it either: he said he just ‘knew’.
It was several months later that experts looked back over the original radar footage. Theyfinally worked out that there was a barely perceptable difference in the time that the missile dot appeared on the radar screen compared to a friendly aircraft dot.The soldier had spent countless nights of watching the same screen and had developed an incredible intuition to be able to detect when things weren’t quite right.
Meet the Human Lie Detector
Now I bet that goes down well at parties…
He has worked for the FBI and the CIA and trains operatives how to find out if people are telling the truth or not. The emotional parts of the brain (deep inside our brain called the ‘limbic system’) is intrinsically linked by nerves to our faces. There are So, like it or not, tiny facial movements (‘micro-expressions’) will betray our true thoughts and feelings:
There are 44 separate facial muscle and Dr Ekman spent years cataloguing over 1,000 or more different facial movements and what they mean. By the way we move our lips or furrow our brow, he can teach you how to tell the diference between genuine suprise, happiness, disgust, sadness and when someone is faking it. Can you tell?
Which of the follwoing is a genuine smile and which is faked?
Can you tell?
The smile of the left is false but the smile on the right is real. If you want to become a super-sleuth like James Bond, then you can find out more on Paul Ekman’s website (and if you’re really keen – you can even pay for an online training course)! It’s worth checking it out just to have a look at a video clip on the main page of him anaysing a witness (who appears to be lying) in the 1995 OJ Simpson trial.
Mind Reading Secrets
I love watching Derren Brown‘s TV programmes shown on Channel 4 (if you live in the UK you should be able to watch them on Youtube). He does some extra-ordinary feats of apparent mind reading (try watching ‘Tricks of the Mind‘). I’ll teach you some of the tricks he uses.
Look straight ahead.
Now try to vividly think about what your bedroom looks like at home. Think about all the details (colours, furniture, etc).
Now: imagine what your bedroom if you were to give it a room ‘make-over’. Think about changing the wall paper and the furniture. Vividly imagine how it might look.
The way your eyes look tell what you are thinking about:
Look at the diagram above: now try it on your friends! Ask them something personal and see if you can work out what they’re really thinking…
http://www.nlp-practitioners.com/interactive/nlp-eye-access-cues-game.php – Play the eye direction game!
http://www.howstuffworks.com/lie-detector.htm – What is a lie detector and do they really work?
http://www.paulekman.com/micros/ – Dr Ekman’s site all about facial ‘micro-expressions’
http://geiscollection.com/bulletin/pdf/faces.pdf – All about a new computer system that reads facial ‘micro-expressions’
Brown, D (2007) Tricks of the Mind. London: Channel 4 Publishing